Bebe Rexha Might Not Attend 2023 VMAs, Cites Anxiety

Bebe Rexha's struggle with anxiety might prevent her from attending tonight's MTV Video Music Awards. The "I'm Good (Blue)" singer shared with her fans on TikTok Monday (September 11) that she is considering skipping the awards show, for which she is nominated in one of the categories. Rexha, 34, noted that though she is "grateful and blessed to be invited," she's also feeling distressed. In her TikTok, she says, "I know that the criticism comes with the territory, so I am all good with that. I mean, sometimes it does get to me. I am human. But I wanted just to talk about this because I meet a lot of people, and a lot of times, they'll be like, ‘Oh my god, I love how you're all about positivity and confidence.' Let me tell you, right now, I'm not feeling so confident."

The performer, who has previously responded to criticism about her appearance, added, "I am so anxious and stressed about going on the red carpet and, I guess, people talking about my weight because I'm not really loving myself right now." As Bebe noted, she's "not really feeling like the bad bitch" that she usually channels. "I guess everybody has these days and nobody ever feels perfect," she continued, "and that's why I wanted to make this video."

The "Call On Me" singer is nominated alongside David Guetta for Best Collaboration at this year's ceremony. She noted in the clip that she doesn't know whether she'll be able to make it to Newark, New Jersey's Prudential Center, but is trying to forge ahead. Despite having a cute outfit and wanting to celebrate her nomination and her friends' nominations, Bebe added that she feels like anxiety gets the best of her. She concluded her TikTok video by asking fans to share any "motivational tips or tricks" they may have with her.

With 8.4 million followers on TikTok, singer-songwriter Bebe Rexha shares tons of content with her fans. From behind-the-scenes footage of music videos and awards shows to her glam transformations, the "I'm Good (Blue)" singer has us in awe of her beauty. Standing at 5'5", the Brooklyn, New York native often highlights body positivity.

Bebe, whose first name is actually Bleta, has no tolerance for the haters commenting on her body. On June 23, the artist took to social media to tell people she is "so sick" of being called fat. Adding in another tweet, Rexha says, "Human beings go through weight fluctuations it’s life and you don’t know what people are going through. Meds, disease, etc…"

A few days later, she posted a video to Instagram and elaborated further on how these comments on her weight affect her. "Not gonna lie it does suck and bother me when I read some comments but it comes with the territory," she wrote in the caption. "I’ve been learning not to judge myself and accept myself while also trying to make healthier decisions in my life. What I have learned though is numbers don’t define you, your heart does." While wearing a glittering bronze ensemble, Rexha spreads her arms out to show her body and ends the short clip by giving two middle fingers as she smiles.

Rexha has been touring with her Best F*n Night Of My Life Tour, promoting her 2023 self-titled album, Bebe. Unfortunately, while performing in New York City earlier this month, a fan threw their phone at the singer, resulting in the singer being taken to the hospital. The concertgoer has since been charged with assault and aggravated harassment. She has since updated fans that she is okay after the assault and has continued on with her tour.

Take a look below at Bebe's hottest TikToks of 2023.

Using this bonkers audio, Bebe shows a super-closeup of her face. Then, as the lyrics, "Oh, Mickey, you're so fine," plays, we see the artist in full glam and diva mode -- complete with wind coming from a fan. (The song is a remake of Toni Basil's 1981 song "Mickey.")

Sharing her love for rapper Ice Spice, the musician wears a plunging, sparkling blue gown and big, glamorous hair as she lip syncs to "In Ha Mood." Rexha was definitely feeling herself in this clip. Rightfully.

When it comes to her multiple Grammy looks this year, Rexha slayed. Panning from the feet up, Rexha shows off what she's working with as she places her hands on her hips and lets the spotlight hit her in this TikTok.

Before heading to the Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards, Rexha made this adorable TikTok using this iconic audio from Charlie's Angels. Wearing a sparkling, form-fitting denim jumper, the singer had fun making this video. And it's fun to watch.

Why would Bebe call a lover when she could just call on herself? Taking place in a bathroom, Bebe wears a sparkling brown top. She looks best in sparkles, as we've seen her wear multiple outfits incorporating these additions.

Wearing her most retro-inspired outfit yet, Bebe wears this psychedelic neon pink and orange halter dress as she struts like a diva poolside. We are loving her Farrah Fawcett-inspired blowout era with big earrings and hope she never stops wearing it!

We are all for celebrating our bodies, especially while lounging on a boat! Wearing a black cap and shades, Rexha wears a Dolce & Gabbana plunging black one-piece swimsuit with a cheeky backside.

Bebe gets flirty with this one. Wearing a black velvet jumpsuit adorned with gold chains along her waist, the musician tells the boys she's a "lil busy." We're betting they're willing to wait for her.

While promoting her "Stars" track with PNAU and Ozuna, Rexha is the ultimate diva in '70s-style hair, a sequined silver outfit, and a trippy, holographic filter.