Men Won’t Date Women Who Do Any Of These 7 Things
Let’s be real – there are a lot more articles out there about women’s turn-ons and turn-offs than men’s. I found a Reddit thread that is basically on the topic of “Men won’t date women who do these 7 things!” Redditor Diligent-Log6805 is adding an article to the men’s column, as he took to Reddit to ask “Guys, what do women do that give you the ick?” I love the responses. So ladies keep reading…Men won’t date women who do these things!
Men were quick to share their turn-offs, and here they are.
- “Loudly empathizing with every cause and group on the planet but treating people in their personal lives like trash.”
- “I think not taking accountability is the biggest one. If you messed up, were rude, incorrect, or whatever, and then you never apologize or admit fault is so unattractive. Just own it and apologize like a grown-up.”
- “When they think a toxic trait of theirs is cute or quirky. There’s a big difference between being blunt in a respectful way and being rude.”
- “Lie about how they really feel.”
- “Giving the silent treatment. I’ve hated it for the longest time — when you do something wrong and you try to apologize and they say nothing is even worse. It’s just hurtful.”
- “Letting their phone be a distraction from being present.”
- “When they always talk about themselves and never ask you anything at all so the entire thing just revolves around her. Not even like ‘How was your day?’ or ‘Are you ok?’ — nope, it’s just always about them and the attention.”
I love this list. Being a married man of 12 years, I know firsthand how difficult it is to communicate with your partner. Years of counseling and therapy have given us the tools to get to our happy place. I also like the fact that none of the guys spoke about anything physical. See ladies! Guys have depth too!