Ask Yourself These 3 Questions Before You Text Your Ex
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If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Should I text my ex?” you already know the answer should be no. And yet, you probably still want to do it anyway, don’t you? Most times, texting your ex is a bad idea.
But.. there are always exceptions to the rule. According to PopSugar, there are some times when it may not be the worst idea in the world to text your ex. Relationship expert Nicole Moore told Pop Sugar when it may be okay to text your ex. Before you send that text, pause for a second, and ask yourself these quotes before pressing send.
- Will I be OK if they don’t text me back? No response is the worst possible outcome, right? So make sure you’re OK with this being a possibility.
- Do I really want to talk to them, or am I just feeling [insert negative emotion]? If you’re feeling sad or needy or lonely… you won’t magically feel better from their text.
- What do I want from this interaction with my ex? Why are you even bothering to text them? An ex won’t solve your confusion for you.
- Would I be happy in a few weeks knowing I texted my ex right now? If the answer is yes, then you’re coming from a “true place,” Nicole says. But if you’d cringe, that’s a no.
Source: PopSugar
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