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YakobchukOlena/ Getty ImagesRelationships take work - whether you’re just starting off together or you’ve been in it for a while. If you want to make it as a couple, you need to put in the effort; it doesn’t just happen. Trust me. I know. I've been in marriage counseling for years! Trying to make it as a couple takes effort from both people.
So how can you be a successful couple? There are some habits that many happy couples do that lead to them being successful. Start doing these habits I found on Bolde. Do these in your relationship and you’ll very likely see a difference the experts say.
- Starting their day with each other
- Setting aside time just for each other
- Celebrating the little things
- Simply listening
- Apologizing - and meaning it
- Communicating first
- Letting things go
- Accepting their partner’s friends and family
- Having their own hobbies and interests
- Putting down their phones
4 Wedding Things Couples Can Skip To Save Money
I remember my wedding ceremony like it was yesterday. That was my favorite part of that day. As far as my reception goes, we hardly remember a thing and it wasn't because we had too much champagne. My wife and I of course had our own table under a beautiful chandelier in the middle of the reception venue just a few feet from the dance floor with the most beautiful center piece. At least that's what was paid for. We hardly sat so that was a bit of a waste. Also, the nacho bar at the end of the night was apparently set up too late so nobody was able to enjoy it like we had wanted. Did we need it? Nope. Certainly could've saved some money there. Wedding experts recently released four things couples waste money on.
The Champagne Toast
A view of the Champagne Flutes at A Dinner with Rick Bayless and Daniela Soto-Innes part of the Bank of America Dinner series curated by Chefs Club at Hôtel Plaza Athénée on October 14, 2016 in New York City.
We avoided this because of how hard it's to coordinate and to be honest, it's a little over-rated. We much preferred that everyone toast with their favorite drink.
Balloon Backdrops
RHINEBECK, NY - JULY 31: Balloons are displayed in a store window as the town prepares for the wedding of Chelsea Clinton and Marc Mezvinsky on July 31, 2010 in Rhinebeck, New York. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)
Balloons are right for a lot of occasions, but I don't think they are necessary for weddings. The wrong style or color can really make it look cheap.
Personalized napkins and place settings.
WASHINGTON, DC - FEBRUARY 10: Place settings for Tuesday night's State Dinner for French President Francois Hollande at the White House February 10, 2014 in Washington, DC. The media was also given a tour of the Blue Room 'to highlight America's strong, longstanding relationship with France and the unique character of our bilateral relationship by showcasing some of the early French influences and artifacts that have been in the White House for centuries, and can still be seen today.' (Photo by Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images)
Guests will be wiping their faces and spilling drinks on your napkins, and food's going to be dropped on the place settings. Anything not personalized will be way cheaper.
Printed wedding programs.
PARIS, FRANCE - SEPTEMBER 30: Invitations are seen during the Alexis Mabille show as part of the Paris Fashion Week Womenswear Spring/Summer 2016 on September 30, 2015 in Paris, France. (Photo by Pascal Le Segretain/Getty Images)
Sure these add a bit of glam to the wedding, but they aren't necessary. Maybe more of a keepsake for Grandma?
SOURCE: NY POST
