Are you needing ideas for the perfect, ideal date? Sometimes not all dates need to be the grand gestures that you see on TV Shows like the Bachelor. Simple can go a long way. The only problem is that some guys can’t seem to live up to even the lowest of expectations. Here are some tips that we found from Love Panky that will blow your date’s expectations.

• They want to get to know you

  This is the most basic necessity of them all. It is the sole reason why she agreed to the date in the first place. No matter what happens by the end of the night, the date is designed to make you feel comfortable around each other enough so that you can both progress to a higher level of intimacy. This is the primary reason why girls love going on dates. It gives them a chance to get to know you and see if they like who you are.

• They want to have fun

  Although it’s necessary to talk about each other while on the date, there’s no rule saying that you can’t have fun while doing so. There’s a reason why the honeymoon stage is the most exciting stage in dating, and it’s because dates will always be fun! Whether perfect or not, this is what girls seek in dates.

• They want to eat

  Hell hath no fury like a woman starved! Some girls don’t like having dinner on a first date, but a three-hour date usually necessitates some form of sustenance. You can get coffee with dessert, a burger after getting drinks from a bar, or even a tub of popcorn while watching a movie. You know what they say, if you want to make her happy, then let her eat! Taking her to a good restaurant with all her faves is a bonus for your dates.

• They want to tell you about themselves

  Everyone wants an audience. They want to be heard and they want to be reacted to. Don’t just talk about yourself in the hopes of impressing your date. She’ll be able to tell whether you’re listening attentively and if you care about what she’s saying. So don’t just pretend to hear her, but genuinely listen to what she’s trying to tell you.

• They want to know that you like them

  Compliment your date. Acknowledge what she’s saying. Make her feel special. It’s not that hard. This is also another significant aspect of a date, especially a perfect date. If you want to make the date as special as possible, make her feel liked and adored. Make sure she knows that you’re actually interested in her and getting to know more about her.

• They want to be treated like a queen

  Of course, this should be on the list of what women look for on an ideal date. Generally, it’s not about how much you spend on the date, but how well you treat her. Girls love going on dates because it makes them feel special, and if they’re with a chivalrous guy, it makes the date all the more special!

• They want to see if you’re a good guy

  Obviously, the purpose of a date is to get to know you better. So girls go on dates to do what they can’t over text: see if you’re really a genuinely good guy. It’s also their chance to check if there are any red flags, such as being disrespectful to you or anyone. The purpose of a date is to get to know one another, and in order for you to land another date with her, she needs to see if you’re a nice guy first. Otherwise, what’s the point?

• They want to see if there’s a follow-up date

  Again, this should be pretty obvious by now. All a girl wants from a date is to see whether you pass her standards or not. She wants to know if you’re the kind of guy she sees herself dating for a prolonged period and if there’ll be a follow-up date. She’s testing if there’s enough compatibility and chemistry to keep seeing you, regardless of what happens on the date and how much of an ideal date it is for her.

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