Signs Your BFF Secretly Despises You
Sometimes our friends screw us over and we realize they were never our friends in the first place. Here are some signs your BFF secretly despises you. Therapist and relationship…
Sometimes our friends screw us over and we realize they were never our friends in the first place. Here are some signs your BFF secretly despises you. Therapist and relationship expert, Lucy Beresford shared with “The Sun” all of the signs you shouldn’t ignore surrounding your “best friend.” Anyway keep an eye out and see if your BF secretly despises you!
Source: The Sun
Some people dream of finding “The One” so they can tie the knot and settle down, but marriage isn’t for everyone. And according to Tyla, one woman is revealing that she’s found her dream relationship … with no romance involved. In a TikTok video, April Lexie Lee explains that she plans to spend her future with her best friend, but it’s not sexual or romantic. They plan to be “platonic life partners.” I think I could totally get down with this. (Knock on wood but…) if anything ever happened to Dallas, I think I could raise my boys with our former Aupair Elena. We’re best friends, she loves my kids and she can read my mind. Sounds like the perfect life partner to me?
In one very sweet moment, April calls her best friend the “love of her life” and says she’s the person she chooses to “do life with.” But their friends and family aren’t so sure. April says they expressed concerns about the friend moving across the world for them to be together, but she points out that they wouldn’t be questioned about it if they were lovers. Most of the comments from her followers are supportive and encouraging though.
Subtle shifts in energy
Some things just aren’t what they used to be with your friend. Pay attention to how spending time with them makes you feel. Exhausted? Angry? Negative?
Jealousy
If they have no interest in celebrating your achievements or try to downplay you and your life, they could be simply jealous.
They’re using you
If they’re always asking for favors but they’re never there when you need them then this tells you your friendship is one-sided.
Loyalty issues
Hearing things from mutual friends that they said behind your back? It’s honestly so 7th grade.
Backhanded compliments
As a form of passive/aggressiveness, what they say might seem nice but when you look at the big picture they’re just being hurtful.
It’s always a competition
Your friend should help you bring out the best in you and not want to be you or better than you.
