9 relationship “rules” you can totally ignore, according to therapists
If you are or have ever been in a relationship, you likely have heard some stereotypical “rules.” There are a ton of them and it seems as though everyone has…
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Photo by Motortion Films/ShutterstockIf you are or have ever been in a relationship, you likely have heard some stereotypical “rules.” There are a ton of them and it seems as though everyone has their own opinion. So which rules should you actually listen to? To make things easier, therapists shared with the “Huffington Post,” some “rules” you can totally ignore.
Don't go to bed angry
Sometimes a good night’s sleep and a clear head can help you better express your feelings.
You need to have sex a certain amount of times per week
You should never feel pressured to fit a quota for sex each week. Figure out what’s best for you and your partner.
Don't date someone with baggage
Everyone has some form of emotional baggage.
Household responsibilities need to be split 50/50
This can lead to scorekeeping, which can lead to resentment. Decide on who does what based on individual strengths and interests.
The relationship is over if someone cheats
If both partners are willing and committed to work through it, a relationship can be repaired.
If you love someone, you always put their needs first
You can say “no” sometimes and you shouldn’t entirely forget about your needs.
Pick your battles
You can discuss every important issue, just remember a lot of it is how you say it rather than what you say.
You have to be into the same things
Differences can be beneficial. Plus having your own things give you healthy independence.
If your partner really loves you, they should be able to anticipate your needs
Seriously, no one can read your mind.
