It’s hard to imagine a more bitter moment: you’ve just gotten married but just know, deep down, that something isn’t right.

We recently found out from Kim Kardashian that she knew as soon as she was on her honeymoon that her relationship with Kris Humphries just wasn’t going to pan out. I guess it’s a lot more understandable now as to why they were only married for 72 days! While this seems like a pretty specific case, LauRen says that many men and women choose to settle for something less than what they want because they feel like time is passing them by. This often spells out rushed, loveless marriages that eventually don’t work out simply because it just doesn’t feel right. One of our listener friends echoes this in her experience of marrying someone who she had known long before was not “the one”. While not all relationships or marriages are meant to be, they can always be seen as learning experiences and chances for us to grow individually as we navigate life.

Was there ever a moment where you knew that it just wasn’t meant to be? Let us know @theMRLshow