Woman Posts Boyfriend Dating Application, Rejects All 5K Men
Modern dating can be frustrating and all that swiping has 78% of Americans feeling burnt out on dating apps, so people are ready to try something different in their quest for love, or at least companionship. Vera Dijkmans is one of them, and she recently tried an unconventional approach to meet Mr. Right.
According to the Daily Mail, the Dutch influencer and model came up with a 15-question quiz for her potential partners to fill out to see if they were up to her high standards. And she got a lot of responses – more than 5-thousand hopeful guys played along and completed the application.
It includes dating questions related to their lifestyle and values, like:
- “What’s your astrological sign?”
- “Number of ex-girlfriends, the number that are ‘crazy,’ and exes you still text/talk to”
- “Do you have kids?” Do you want them?
- “If you were picking three adjectives to describe yourself would one of them be douchey?”
- “Do you live with your parents?”
- “Do you currently have a booty call?”
- “Is it acceptable to hit on my friends?”
- “If we lived together would I get the walk in closet?”
But after all the applications, Vera says she’s still single, even after going on dates with the top three candidates she picked based on the quiz. She says they were “suitable,” but she just didn’t connect with them, and while she considers the experiment a success overall, she wouldn’t do the quiz again. “I’m just very picky and I need a guy to be almost perfect,” Vera explains. “I don’t think I should have to compromise on my needs – I’d rather be single until I find the man I’m meant to be with.”
6 Inexpensive Date Ideas: Ignite Romance Without Breaking The Bank
Coffee Date
This date is a personal favorite because it’s not overly complicated. Coffee dates are casual and very low pressure. It allows you and your date to talk in a relax environment. Bonus points, if you make a local coffee shop. Local coffee shops often have a more intimate setting.
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Walk A Scenic Trail
By no means are we talking about an intense hike up and down mountains and hills. But a simple nature trail will do the trick. This kind of date gives you both a chance to enjoy nature and create a memorable experience. You can even plan for a sunrise or sunset walk for added romance. Be sure to wear comfortable shoes.
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Sip Date At A Brewery Or Wine Tour
There are several local breweries and wineries that offer tours throughout their establishment. These establishments usually have fun tours that break down the process of how their product is made. Sharing the experience with your partner is even better because you’ll get to talk about what you both think of the drinks. Some breweries and tours include tastings and often start at just $15 per person. Sometimes these places offer games and live music.
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Go On A Picnic
Picnic dates are a classic. You can get as elaborate as you want to and work it into any budget. You can have a picnic almost anywhere as long as there’s a place to drop a picnic blanket or a table for eating. Other than having food on hand, it wouldn’t hurt to have a card game handy or a Bluetooth speaker at hand to prevent awkward moments. Just a heads up, this date involves careful planning. If it’s peak sunshine and mosquito season, be sure to pack your sunscreen and bug spray.
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Volunteer Date
Volunteer dates can work really well for established couples. They can create new opportunities to meet people and make couple of friends. Obviously, a volunteer date may not be a good idea if you’re separated the entire time. So, this one may require a bit of research. Unless you’re looking to add a bit of adventure or something different to your date.
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Antiquing And Thrifting
Garage sales, estate sales, antiquing, thrifting, whichever you choose can make for a fun budget-friendly date. It’s like a scavenger hunt where you don’t know what the items are you’re supposed to find. But whatever you two may find you can always laugh and bond about it. There’s even the possibility of a fashion show if you find yourself in a place with a load of vintage clothes. The same concept can also be applied to bookstores and music stores.
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