Basic Things About Woman That Men Don’t Understand
There are some basic things about being a woman that men don’t …or won’t understand. A post on the Askwomen sub Reddit gets into this by asking, “What was the…
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GettyThere are some basic things about being a woman that men don’t …or won’t understand. A post on the Askwomen sub Reddit gets into this by asking, “What was the most recent thing someone casually said to you that shocked you with how out of touch they are with the female experience?” Some of the responses are cringe, others will make you roll your eyes and these are some of the top-rated replies.
- "I was telling this guy about my friend who is lacking support in her marriage, and he said, 'How could he support her? He’s working.' I was like, 'She’s working, too?' And he just couldn’t compute."
- "I always talk about how I love the city at night and how I wish I could take midnight walks. A dear friend said, 'Why don't you?' And when I pointed out how dangerous it was, his reply was, 'Just don't take your phone, then you don't have to worry about being robbed!'"
- "Went on a date with a guy in the medical field. He told me that because mitosis (the process of cells separating) is an involuntary process, growing and birthing a baby really isn’t that much effort for women. He also believed that women and men put in the same amount of effort for the birthing of a child."
- "My brother legitimately thought women could walk into an OBGYN to get a hysterectomy whenever we want if we don't want kids. LMAO."
- "A lighthearted one, but I was pretty surprised when men in the office began claiming the women’s bathroom was very fancy strictly because we had a box of tampons."
- "A male friend genuinely asked if feminism was 'still a thing.'"
- "I wanted to take Plan B after having unprotected sex, and he said, 'Why don't we discuss that in a few weeks?'"
- "My friend said that women don’t grow facial hair, so I had to explain how often I needed to wax my mustache."
- "’Are lady pilots allowed??’ - from a 32 year old man. My jaw hit the floor."
- "My work place offers 6 months of maternity leave or 12 months at half pay. Had a male coworker tell me that was unfair because a woman could ‘pop out a kid per year for 3 years and it would count as a 3 years experience on her resumè’"
4 Wedding Things Couples Can Skip To Save Money
I remember my wedding ceremony like it was yesterday. That was my favorite part of that day. As far as my reception goes, we hardly remember a thing and it wasn't because we had too much champagne. My wife and I of course had our own table under a beautiful chandelier in the middle of the reception venue just a few feet from the dance floor with the most beautiful center piece. At least that's what was paid for. We hardly sat so that was a bit of a waste. Also, the nacho bar at the end of the night was apparently set up too late so nobody was able to enjoy it like we had wanted. Did we need it? Nope. Certainly could've saved some money there. Wedding experts recently released four things couples waste money on.
The Champagne Toast
A view of the Champagne Flutes at A Dinner with Rick Bayless and Daniela Soto-Innes part of the Bank of America Dinner series curated by Chefs Club at Hôtel Plaza Athénée on October 14, 2016 in New York City.
We avoided this because of how hard it's to coordinate and to be honest, it's a little over-rated. We much preferred that everyone toast with their favorite drink.
Balloon Backdrops
RHINEBECK, NY - JULY 31: Balloons are displayed in a store window as the town prepares for the wedding of Chelsea Clinton and Marc Mezvinsky on July 31, 2010 in Rhinebeck, New York. (Photo by Michael Loccisano/Getty Images)
Balloons are right for a lot of occasions, but I don't think they are necessary for weddings. The wrong style or color can really make it look cheap.
Personalized napkins and place settings.
WASHINGTON, DC - FEBRUARY 10: Place settings for Tuesday night's State Dinner for French President Francois Hollande at the White House February 10, 2014 in Washington, DC. The media was also given a tour of the Blue Room 'to highlight America's strong, longstanding relationship with France and the unique character of our bilateral relationship by showcasing some of the early French influences and artifacts that have been in the White House for centuries, and can still be seen today.' (Photo by Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images)
Guests will be wiping their faces and spilling drinks on your napkins, and food's going to be dropped on the place settings. Anything not personalized will be way cheaper.
Printed wedding programs.
PARIS, FRANCE - SEPTEMBER 30: Invitations are seen during the Alexis Mabille show as part of the Paris Fashion Week Womenswear Spring/Summer 2016 on September 30, 2015 in Paris, France. (Photo by Pascal Le Segretain/Getty Images)
Sure these add a bit of glam to the wedding, but they aren't necessary. Maybe more of a keepsake for Grandma?
SOURCE: NY POST
