Men Won’t Date Women Who Do Any Of These 7 Things
Let’s be real – there are a lot more articles out there about women’s turn-ons and turn-offs than men’s. I found a Reddit thread that is basically on the topic…
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Mina3686/ Getty ImagesLet’s be real - there are a lot more articles out there about women’s turn-ons and turn-offs than men’s. I found a Reddit thread that is basically on the topic of "Men won't date women who do these 7 things!" Redditor Diligent-Log6805 is adding an article to the men's column, as he took to Reddit to ask “Guys, what do women do that give you the ick?” I love the responses. So ladies keep reading...Men won't date women who do these things!
Men were quick to share their turn-offs, and here they are.
- "Loudly empathizing with every cause and group on the planet but treating people in their personal lives like trash."
- "I think not taking accountability is the biggest one. If you messed up, were rude, incorrect, or whatever, and then you never apologize or admit fault is so unattractive. Just own it and apologize like a grown-up."
- "When they think a toxic trait of theirs is cute or quirky. There's a big difference between being blunt in a respectful way and being rude."
- "Lie about how they really feel."
- "Giving the silent treatment. I've hated it for the longest time — when you do something wrong and you try to apologize and they say nothing is even worse. It's just hurtful."
- "Letting their phone be a distraction from being present."
- "When they always talk about themselves and never ask you anything at all so the entire thing just revolves around her. Not even like 'How was your day?' or 'Are you ok?' — nope, it's just always about them and the attention."
I love this list. Being a married man of 12 years, I know firsthand how difficult it is to communicate with your partner. Years of counseling and therapy have given us the tools to get to our happy place. I also like the fact that none of the guys spoke about anything physical. See ladies! Guys have depth too!
Top 10 Best Singles Bars in Charlotte
Looking for your soulmate? Or maybe you're just looking for a new, fresh start after a hard breakup. Either way, Charlotte is the perfect city for a fun time and to meet new singles. From great bars to local hotspots, there are plenty of places you might want to check out if you're looking for other singles in the area.
Yelp curated a list of the top 10 best singles bars in Charlotte and you might want to take a look! From fancy nightlife to chill spots with great food and drinks, your next mate might be waiting for you at one of these spots. Enjoy this summer out on the town and meeting and mingling with our Charlotte singles. You never know, your future spouse might just be there the one night you decide to go. So, you're welcome and just invite us to the wedding! Here are Yelp's top 10 best singles bars in Charlotte you should check out this summer.
10. Sullivan's Steakhouse
Head to Sullivan's Steakhouse on a Thursday which turns into their specials night and a place to meet plenty of singles in the area.
9. Rusty Bucket Restaurant & Tavern
Enjoy a good bite and even better drinks at Rusty Bucket and see who you meet at the bar or out on the patio.
8. Dilworth Neighborhood Grille
Open late nights i s Dilworth Neighborhood Grille. Grab a drink by the bar or hang out and mingle with those looking for some great food like you.
7. The Lodge: A Sportsman's Grill
Open til midnight, head to this bar that holds plenty of singles and plenty of drink options to enjoy throughout the night.
6. Angry Ale's
Head to Angry Ale's and leave happy after meeting someone you may connect with! Live music, trivia, food, and so much more!
5. JackBeagles
Two words: Mimosas and patio. Enjoy a nice summer day with great drinks and even better energy at JackBeagles. They have open mic and other fun things always happening throughout the week.
4. RuRu's Tacos & Tequila
The name says it all, tacos and tequila? If you enjoy Taco Tuesday, meet someone who shares a love at this local hot spot.
3. Billy Jack's Shack
Hit up Billy Jack's Shack for a good time with even better people in NoDa. Open late on weekends, so you can enjoy a fun night in NoDa.
2. Ink N Ivy
But seriously, one of my favorite spots is Ink N Ivy. Enjoy the night with good food, great music, and tons of fun people. It's also in the perfect location to head outside and see everyone out and about in the streets of Charlotte planning the rest of the night.
1. Stoke Charlotte
Hit up Stoke Charlotte as its Yelp's No. 1 spot for singles. This uptown, chic spot is your time to get fancy and add a little sophistication to the night. Meet and mingle with those at the bar relaxing after a long day. Grab just a drink or a bite to eat and see where the night takes you.
