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The Pear Ring Wants To Help Singles Meet IRL

Would you wear a ring that tells the world that you’re single? That’s what The Pear Ring is hoping. It’s an actual ring to wear on your finger and according…

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NEW YORK – MAY 28: Single New Yorkers chat during a HurryDate speed dating event May 28, 2003 in New York City. Speed dating is a trend in New York, pitting dozens of singles together for dozens of short “dates” in an evening. Participants fill out cards if they’re interested, and event organizers e-mail any resulting matches. (Photo by Chris Hondros/Getty Images)

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Would you wear a ring that tells the world that you’re single? That’s what The Pear Ring is hoping. It’s an actual ring to wear on your finger and according to its website, it’s the “world’s biggest social experiment” and “the opposite of engagement rings.” Wearing the green-colored band announces to others that you’re available and “open to conversation IRL.”

I am all about this! Dating apps have always scared me. If I was single, I think I would prefer this new ring method to meet people in real life.

According to Interesting Engineering, the goal of The Pear Ring is to end the culture of dating apps and help people make real connections in person. Millions of the $25 rings have already been sold, the website reports, which means there could be people at your gym, bar, or train wearing one and looking for others wearing one to hit on. “If 1.2 billion singles around the world wore a little green ring on their finger to show they’re single, we wouldn’t need dating apps,” the site reads. “IRL connection is the mission.”

So is it actually a product to help singles meet people naturally, or is it a ploy to get our money? Time will tell, but social media users have suggested that women who wear the ring will be solicited more often, for better or worse. But others are more optimistic:

One TikToker writes, “Interesting, it does feel Black Mirror-ish, but also imagine being in Trader Joe’s and knowing who’s single … A dream.”

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Looking For Love? North Carolina Named One Of 2023’s Best States for Singles

We are just a few weeks from Valentine's Day or known to some as Singles Awareness Day. If you're looking for love then you may be in the right place. That's correct, North Carolina was ranked as one of the top states for singles by a recent WalletHub study. And that makes me feel even worst about being single. There are a lot of factors that can influence your finding of that special someone you want to spend your life with. There are the superficial and looks but it's important. Other factors are personality, interests, career, and even location. Let's face it dating is easier when there are more options for places to go, people to meet, etc.

So states combine all of those qualities and therefore are ideal for singles? To answer that question, WalletHub compared the 50 states across 30 key indicators of dating-friendliness. The data set ranges from the share of single adults to online-dating opportunities to restaurants per capita. Keep reading to see exactly where North Carolina ranked for singles, and where you should relocate if you want an even better shot at love.  You'll also find the 10 worst states, which feature our neighbors to the south. Interested in the full study? Check out WalletHub’s Best & Worst Cities for Singles report.

Best States For Singles

1. California

CaliforniaMarcelo Fabian Mollaretti/Getty Images Plus

Total Score: 68.03

Dating Opportunities: 2

Dating Economics: 49

Romance & Fun: 1

2. New York

New York city(Photo by Craig Barritt/Getty Images for Allspring Global Investments)

Total Score: 67.28

Dating Opportunities: 1

Dating Economics: 50

Romance & Fun: 2

3. Florida

FloridaRAUL RODRIGUEZ/Getty Images Plus

Total Score: 65.57

Dating Opportunities: 4

Dating Economics: 36

Romance & Fun: 3

4. Texas

TexasДмитрий Ларичев/Getty Images Plus

Total Score: 63.12

Dating Opportunities: 12

Dating Economics: 21

Romance & Fun: 4

5. Pennsylvania

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Total Score: 62.25

Dating Opportunities: 8

Dating Economics: 31

Romance & Fun: 5

6. Illinois

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Total Score: 61.77

Dating Opportunities: 6

Dating Economics: 37

Romance & Fun: 6

7. New Jersey

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Total Score: 60.46

Dating Opportunities: 7

Dating Economics: 22

Romance & Fun: 8

8. Massachusetts

BostonSean Pavone/Getty Images Plus

Total Score: 59.86

Dating Opportunities: 3

Dating Economics: 48

Romance & Fun: 9

9. Wisconsin

Madison

<strong style="font-size: 16px;">Total Score</strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">: 57.74</span>

Dating Opportunities: 19

Dating Economics: 10

Romance & Fun: 7

10. Virginia

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Total Score: 56.57

Dating Opportunities: 13

Dating Economics: 13

Romance & Fun: 22

11. Minnesota

MN

<strong style="font-size: 16px;">Total Score</strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">: 56.24</span>

Dating Opportunities: 21

Dating Economics: 5

Romance & Fun: 18

12. Colorado

Colorado SpringsSean Pavone/Getty Images Plus

Total Score: 55.67

Dating Opportunities: 18

Dating Economics: 14

Romance & Fun: 11

13. Washington

Washington

<strong style="font-size: 16px;">Total Score</strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">: 55.65</span>

Dating Opportunities: 11

Dating Economics: 25

Romance & Fun: 17

14. Connecticut

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Total Score: 55.02

Dating Opportunities: 9

Dating Economics: 45

Romance & Fun: 16

15. North Carolina

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Total Score: 54.40

Dating Opportunities: 17

Dating Economics: 24

Romance & Fun: 12

Worst States For Singles

40. Oklahoma

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Total Score: 42.42

Dating Opportunities:38

Dating Economics: 17

Romance & Fun: 39

41. Montana

MontanaSeanPavonePhoto/Getty Images Creative

Total Score: 42.12

Dating Opportunities: 44

Dating Economics: 12

Romance & Fun: 32

42. Alabama

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Total Score: 41.45

Dating Opportunities: 41

Dating Economics: 20

Romance & Fun: 40

43. South Carolina

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Total Score: 41.34

Dating Opportunities: 40

Dating Economics: 28

Romance & Fun: 35

44. Alaska

A view of Denali, formerly known as Mt. McKinley(Photo by Lance King/Getty Images)

Total Score: 39.60

Dating Opportunities: 31

Dating Economics: 46

Romance & Fun: 50

45. Mississippi

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Total Score: 39.26

Dating Opportunities: 36

Dating Economics: 29

Romance & Fun: 47

46. Kentucky

Kentucky

<strong style="font-size: 16px;">Total Score</strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">: 38.93</span>

Dating Opportunities: 43

Dating Economics: 39

Romance & Fun: 31

47. Wyoming

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<strong style="font-size: 16px;">Total Score</strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">: 35.59</span>

Dating Opportunities: 49

Dating Economics: 19

Romance & Fun: 43

48. North Dakota

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Total Score: 35.58

Dating Opportunities: 50

Dating Economics: 6

Romance & Fun: 45

49. Arkansas

ArkansasSean Pavone/Getty Images Creative

Total Score: 35.18

Dating Opportunities: 47

Dating Economics: 34

Romance & Fun: 44

50. West Virginia

West Virginia

<strong style="font-size: 16px;">Total Score</strong><span style="font-size: 16px;">: 34.13</span>

Dating Opportunities: 46

Dating Economics: 42

Romance & Fun: 49

LauRen Merola Strager is a former NFL & NBA cheerleader turned radio host. LauRen is a former Miss Pennsylvania USA and is a proud wife and mother of two. She is the owner and chief editor for her fashion and lifestyle Blog “All Of The F-Words” and is a champion for the Autism community. You can read all about LauRen’s thoughts on motherhood, pageant life, and everyday life through her online content.