Dating Coach Explains Why Your Connection Isn’t Moving Off Dating Apps

If you’re wondering why your Tinder/Hinge/Bumble/Whatever match hasn’t moved off the app yet, a dating coach may have the solution for you. According to CNBC there is a recent Hinge survey shows that even though 62% of users are ready to go on a date with someone after three days, only 34% actually plan a date during that time. Psychologist and clinical director of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching in Denver, Lisa Marie Bobby, isn’t surprised by this.

“Many people are not dating with a lot of thought or intention. They don’t have a strategy. They sign up for an app and their default is to not think about it that much and text people,” she explains. I think this is my concern with dating apps. I am married, but if that ever went sideways I'm not sure the apps would be the place for me. I think it's easy for people to tell themselves that they are "dating" when they are really just looking for a hookup!

Lisa also says that if you’re in this totally online back-and-forth and want to take it IRL, you should take the reins yourself. “Be empowered to initiate,” she stresses. Great advice, that way if you get weird vibes you can put an end to things.

Source: CNBC

You live in North Carolina or South Carolina and you would rather not go out of the Carolinas to find love.  And there is no reason to look any where else.  According to Google, 50 percent of South Carolina's population is single.  There are lots of fish in this Palmetto tree. Here are the top five places in South Carolina to find love.

It seems like when you look around, everyone is taken but maybe you just aren't looking in the right pond.  That is where Only In Your State comes in.  They have ranked the best places in South Carolina to find love.

According to Only In Your State: "Being single isn’t easy. It definitely isn’t easy if you live in a place where there’s not a good moving crowd of other singles. Many singles ask themselves where should they live if they’re single. Where is all the good nightlife, the entertainment, and the other single people? South Carolina has a lot of places for singles to mingle. Here is a list of the top best places you should think about moving to if you’re single and looking to change that."

If you don't want to move to these places, you might just want to visit.  Some you may even be very familiar with.  Get Details from Only In Your State right here.

Charleston tops the list for the best city in South Carolina to find singles.  So much night life and culture and history lives here.

This South Carolina beach town is great for meeting singles especially if you are under 40.  It's a place we have all been to time and time again.  It is teaming with things to do not only for the family but for those looking for love.

Ah, perfect place if you are 30 or older.  All that history and beauty is ripe for moving love right along. And that coastline! Gorgeous!

Time to move inland!  What a beautiful city that is just big enough to find everything you are looking for.

Take it straight to the capital! A beautiful city that is just the right size to date and find that perfect partner.