Why Would A Guy Wait 8 Months To Ask For 2nd Date

Why would a guy wait 8 months to ask for a 2nd date? According to CHIPCHICK it happened. If you go out with someone and then don’t hear from them for a really long time, you probably just assume they ghosted you, right? What if it’s been more than half a year since your date and then they suddenly start texting you again. Then out of the blue, and then they ask for another date? This is the situation one woman on TikTok found herself in and she shares the details in a video.

In the clip, Michelle shows the text exchange she and her one-time date had. It started off nice and friendly with them exchanging pleasantries. The unnamed guy then asks, “So I’m actually reaching out to see if you want to go on a date with me this Friday?” She responds that Friday works for her, but she doesn’t let him off the hook for waiting such a long time to contact her. “Quick question …,” she writes. “It’s been like 8 months since our last date; why now? Lol.”

And this dude doesn’t hold back on the brutal honesty. “Well, you are extremely gorgeous, and I love your personality!” he writes. “But, on our last date, all your friends met us at fiestas, and you finished a whole pitcher of margaritas by yourself …” That probably wasn’t the response Michelle was expecting from him, but he didn’t stop there, texting, “Would you happen to still be an alcoholic?” Unfortunately, she doesn’t show us what she wrote back or share with viewers whether there was in fact a second date at all. But the comments section has her back either way:

Ladies would date a guy who would wait 8 months to ask for a 2nd date?