Ever been on a date and say something that didn’t quite land with your bae? Maybe it was this…
According to News.com.au, an Australian dating expert and matchmaker reveals the five words she thinks women should stop saying if they want to find romance. In a video posted to Instagram this week, Louanne Ward explains why women should avoid saying, “I don’t need a man.”
According to Ward, this phrase sends single men running and it becomes a kind of self-fulfilling prophecy. While it’s true that you don’t need a man because you earn your own money, can support yourself and are happy with your life, she says, “Every time you say ‘I don’t need a man,’ what you’re doing is putting out there exactly what you’re attracting back.”
And while you might not need a man for a lot of things, Ward points out that you do actually “need all the things a man can give you,” like love, affection, support, laughter, caring and of course, sex. So rather than declaring that you don’t need a man and putting that idea out into the universe, she advises “being brave enough to say ‘Actually, I do need a man for all the things that I can’t give myself.’” So if you’re looking for a relationship with a man, it’s tough to manifest one when you’re literally saying the opposite.
Source: News.com.au
