The Francene Marie Show

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LONDON, ENGLAND - FEBRUARY 13: DON'T BE DAVE: A new survey by Asda has revealed over half of British women have never received flowers on Valentine's Day and Dave is the most likely to forget his loved one this year. Asda and flower designer Joseph Massie have created a living floral billboard allowing Londoners, like Dave to take a single red rose for their Valentine #dontbedave at Victoria Station on February 13, 2015 in London, England. (Photo by Ian Gavan/Getty Images for ASDA)

The mystery behind staying upbeat is to start a new project to get your mind off of the pain. From hiring someone to help you get your ideas off the ground, to going to the dollar store and making a craft. During dark times, stay far away from energy zappers. Those people mean you no good and you’ll spend energy you can save for another time. This next suggestion may sound trivial, but focus on your breathing and drink lots of water throughout the day.

Drinking water can reset your body and does the body good. When we’re mad everything goes up. Your blood pressure, your reasoning and coping skills fly out the window, and cortisol levels spike. I’m sorry if you have lost a loved one and can’t take the grief, but they say we should grieve in order to get it out of our system. The way the U.S. is structured, you only get a week or two to take leave from work. Once we realize that we need more time, the rent, mortgage and car payments are due. Find the best way to get along with yourself instead of jumping from relationship to relationship and friend to friend. You might have a list of things that make you happy, but I suggest visiting new places and new things to do. When I’m sick of going to the same grocery stores, I drive to a new location a few miles up. Take time for yourself the best way you can.

First African American, one-woman syndicated radio host in the Southeast region for major broadcast networks. Over the past 23 years my passion and perseverance has lead me to reach and relate to demographics spanning, Sports stations, Country, Hip-hop, R & B, Gospel, Adult Contemporary & Top 40 radio stations. I have a unique way of setting the tone, and people feel comfortable telling their story,