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SYDNEY, NSW - JUNE 07: A pregnant woman holds her stomach June 7, 2006 in Sydney, Australia. Australia is currently enjoying a baby boom, with the Australian Bureau of Statistics registering a 2.4% increase in births from 2004 to 2005, which represents the highest number of births since 1992. The Australian Federal Government has been encouraging people to have more babies, with financial incentives and the slogan by treasurer Peter Costello to "have one for mum, one for dad, and one for the country". The Federal Government has identified falling fertility rates and the ageing population as long-term problems for Australia's growth and prosperity. (Photo by Ian Waldie/Getty Images)

A woman’s coworker, Rhonda, invited her to a baby shower for her daughter, but this was no ordinary baby shower. In a post to Reddit’s “Am I the a-hole” section, she explains that after arriving at the event with a baby gift, she met the “mom-to-be” and congratulated her on the upcoming baby. But she was shocked when Rhonda’s daughter replied, “Thank you, I’m not pregnant quite yet, but it’s always good to be prepared when the time comes.”

The woman writes that she was visibly confused and another coworker explained that Rhonda’s daughter had been “feeling down because quite a few of her friends had been pregnant,” so her mom decided to throw her a “party to shower her with love.”

It turns out, this information was shared on the physical invitations, but none of the coworkers had received one. When it was clear she’d been lied to, the woman asked if she could take her gift back, saying she’d prefer to get her a gift when she was actually having a baby. Rhonda said it would be rude and that her daughter is going through a lot, but the woman took the present and left anyway.

But the drama didn’t stop there. Rhonda’s daughter sent her hateful messages on Facebook, calling her a “disrespectful old b*tch” and a bad friend to Rhonda. And even worse? Rhonda is threatening to go to HR at their company if she doesn’t give the baby shower gift back AND buy something else off the registry “for the suffering” she’s caused.