10 Signs Your Partner Isn't Emotionally Mature

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If you've been questioning if your significant other is too immature emotionally, look for these tell-tale signs:

They don't have strong interpersonal relationships with others (i.e- friends, family, coworkers). This can cause them to have poor decision-making skills or rely solely on you for help.
They have poor communication. If they show signs of passive aggression, a short fuse, or an unwarranted reaction, they may be lacking in mature communication skills.
They don't deal with conflict well. An inability to see others' point of view and a childish approach to "not getting their way" are tell-tale signs that conflicts between the two of you won't get solved easily, if at all.
They play mind games. Somebody that changes their mind frequently, at the expense of others and for their own personal gain, are displaying traits of insecurity and immaturity which may linger within the relationship.
They are unable to compromise. If it always seems to be their way or no way, then they are openly saying (without saying) that they are too selfish to try and meet your needs.
They shut down during emotional moments. Being unable to adequately work through emotional times within the relationship doesn't make for a strong foundation when life gets tough for the two of you.
They aren't self-aware. Things like interrupting, belittling, talking too much, making all conversations about themselves, etc. are all red flags. If your partner isn't aware of how they are making others feel, chances are you're on that receiving end as well.
They have idealized expectations of you. Having particular expectations for your partner isn't necessarily a bad thing, however, it is if you never seem to "meet" these ever-changing expectations and find that they are getting more and more unrealistic.
They hold grudges. Someone who is not willing to move forward from hardships in their relationship is someone who lacks the maturity to forgive and build.
They are inconsiderate. This coincides with lacking self-awareness and can vary from something as minor as constantly making you wait, to not considering your feelings in sensitive situations.

Recognize the warning signs and read the full article here! Be on the lookout for these red flags, and remember that you can't force someone to grow up or be emotionally mature enough for a relationship.

Nicole WeaverWriter